Tag: personal development

  • My 12 Favorite Problems, Version 2

    My 12 Favorite Problems, Version 2

    I am iterating on the 12 Favorite Problems Technique. I am merging a first iteration and two drafts coming from my notes.

    Process

    I’m refining my approach, and I start to like it:

    1. Start with a draft.
    2. Refine, and iterate continuously. (iterative thinking)
    3. Develop your view of each problem.
    4. Find connections.
    5. Organize problems hierarchically and by priority and scope.
    6. Revise periodically.

    My 12 Favorite Problems

    This is version 2 of my 12 favorite problems:

    1. how to be a good person
      1. How to live a good life. (purpose/meaning)
      2. How to make the best use of my time
      3. What is happiness? How to understand it and live with and without it.
      4. How to develop an interconnected system of habits to grow as a healthy, wealthy, and systemic human being, conscious citizens of the world, human being, member of humankind
      5. Develop self-awareness, self-expression
      6. How to stay healthy
      7. How to make my life meaningful, worthwhile
    2. How to have good relationships
      1. How to take care of my family
        1. how to be a good partner
        2. how to be a good father
        3. how to be a good son
        4. how to be a good relative
      2. how to be a good friend
      3. how to be a good citizen of the World
      4. How to spend more quality time with quality people
    3. How to be a good thinker
      1. how to be a good thinker
        1. observation
          1. recognizing patterns
          2. cross-discipline / non-disciplinary
        2. how to think about the future
      2. how to make the best decisions
      3. Learning
        1. how to be a good learner
    4. Communication
      1. how to communicate in the best way
      2. Storytelling
        1. how to tell great stories
        2. how to create great stories
    5. Justice, equality, equanimity
      1. What’s the right word?
      2. How to create a just society
    6. Make the world better
      1. How to build a sustainable society
      2. How to make a living while making the world a better place.
      3. How to leave a positive, durable, compounding legacy
      4. How to put new things in the world to make it better rather than worse
      5. How to minimize unintended consequences
      6. How to create better futures
      7. How to improve the ecosystem’s health
    7. Education
      1. How to educate sons.
      2. How to educate children.
      3. How to educate human beings.
      4. How to educate human beings for the best
      5. How to learn
        1. How to know more about what is unknown
      6. How to be a good facilitator, coach, trainer, educator
    8. How to be a good designer
      1. How to understand, communicate, and manage complexity
      2. How to minimize unintended consequences
      3. Imagining alternative worlds
      4. How to create networks of networks of changemakers creating a positive impact on people and the planet
      5. How can I leave a legacy that will make me remembered in a positive way
    9. How to imagine better futures
    10. How to augment life
      1. How to raise the collective intelligence
      2. How to extend life, perception, augment intelligence, individual and collective.
      3. How to live multiple lives
    11. How to minimize the suffering of all living beings
      1. How to relieve suffering
    12. How to be more creative
      1. Teach everybody to be creative
      2. Make art a part of everybody’s life

    Update: 12 Developed drafts

  • Where do you need a PKM system?

    Where do you need a PKM system?

    Is it a physical place or a virtual place?

    If “Where” is a context, it will be in those places where the capturing, the organization, the development, and the sharing of knowledge is happening.  I see a connection with “when.” When I am in any place in the world, and I noticed something interesting and relevant and resonating to my interest, that is the place where I want to capture it. 

    If I am on the go, I need a piece of paper or my smartphone. If I am navigating the Internet on my desktop, the place would be the website I am navigating or the conference call where I am talking. That place is virtual, and it would be easy to plug in a capturing tool.

    The organization might be different because if I am on the go with my mobile phone, I might organize the knowledge that I’ve captured or that I’m about to capture or the idea that I am to develop. It’s not as easy as having a laptop or a desktop, or a notebook. But again, the portability of these kinds of analog or digital technologies will allow me to be anywhere and everywhere.

    If I am in a real-life meeting, it might be difficult to use my mobile phone. So it might make sense to write notes on paper. That means that I will need to revise and review my notes at the end of the meeting and enter them into my digital PKM.

    The same happens when I’m reading a physical text like a book, an article, a newspaper, or a magazine. The context needs me to digitize the text or the images, and I can use my smartphone again. For instance, using some OCR applications, I could extract the text from any piece of paper and store them in my inbox to be reviewed and organized.

    Where does it happen to me to need to search for information? Again, I could be anywhere globally, and I could use my smartphone, which means that I need to have my personal knowledge base online. If I had lost my smartphone, I should still access my PKB at any internet access point or borrow a laptop or a smartphone. 

    It makes sense to compare the different physical and virtual places against the various stages of my PKM because I might need to use different tools and approaches—the “where” can make a difference in how I do PKM.

    The “where” should be everywhere, where you add and retrieve information out of your PKB to write, think and create.

    Quo Vadis?
    Quo Vadis?
  • Containing Large Multitudes

    Containing Large Multitudes

    This is my Day 1 Article to participate in the CREAZEE Daily Writing Habit Challenge April 2021. And it is also my Day 136 Article since I’ve started to write daily.


    I am Max. Massimo Curatella if you want the full name. Presenting myself has always been a problem.

    Not anymore.

    “Hi, what do you do?” used to be an embarrassing question for me.

    “Yeah, I write about Computer Graphics, but I am also a programmer. I am studying as an Engineer, but I want to make movies and videogames. Yeah, not started yet. In the meantime, I am doing training for architects. No, no, it’s not related, but I like it. Oh, yes, the university courses, I designed and developed them because a friend suggested me to do it for the Physics Faculty. Oh, I think Design is the key success factor of software. I find it even more fun than software development.”

    That would have been one of the many conversations I would hold with people. And I would usually remain with a sense of incompleteness and unsatisfaction.

    Fast forward 20 or 30 years, now I am using my roles in a fluid and fluent way. I can talk “programming” if I am with developers, I can defend “design” with colleagues and client, I can propose “training” with corporate, I would suggest “facilitation” in social innovation and agile management, I can “write and speak” in diverse settings if I need to. (Another day I will tell you about, management, direction, research, coaching, and mentoring).

    Why? Because that is who I am.

    How? By remaining humble, accountable, and, first of all, supporting what I promise with valuable evidence.

    Is it easy? No, it is not, and it took me my entire life to find a bearable balance and make an advantage out of it.

    What about tomorrow?

    Thanks for this question. I’ve found a beautiful way to manage all of the passions and the threads passing through my mind: writing about it.

    And this is just one of those threads.

    I dance between roles and labels. I use them for my benefit. I aim at being what I can be by playing with possibilities and potentiality. That’s who I am today. Ask me again tomorrow.

    Oh, and I am large, by the way.

  • My 12 Favorite Problems

    My 12 Favorite Problems

    1. How to stay healthy
    2. How to take care of my family
    3. How to be a better thinker
    4. How to educate children
    5. How to be sustainable
    6. How to create networks of networks of changemakers creating a positive impact on people and the planet
    7. How to make my life meaningful, worthwhile
    8. How can I leave a legacy that will make me remembered in a positive way
    9. How to spend more quality time with quality people
    10. How to improve the ecosystem’s health
    11. How to relieve suffering
    12. How to know more about what is unknown

    What are your favorite 12 problems?


    See a new iteration of this article: My 12 Favorite Problems, Version 2

    The problem with problems.
    The problem with problems.
  • Start to create, now

    Start to create, now

    What was the most critical event determining my 117 daily articles written and published in a row?

    Starting.

    I faced any possible struggle, pain, boredom, unsatisfaction, and uncertainty while trying to find the will and the time to write for almost four months, every single day. I stretched my creativity to the limits. I had to overcome the fear of failure, looking stupid, saying something wrong, being inadequate, uncomfortable, or not up to the standard—every day for 17 weeks. No exceptions, no day skipped, no holidays, no pauses.

    That was nothing compared to the single most important action I could do precisely on the 15th of November 2020.

    Starting.

    We are living in our self-built creative cages.

    • One day I will open a blog.
    • If only I could write that article.
    • I really admire who can create frequently.
    • I have so many ideas, but I don’t have the time.
    • I would never expose myself to the public without carefully check what I have to say.
    • What if somebody who I care about reads something I wrote and got offended?
    • What will my clients think about what I have to say about my professional field?
    • Will I lose my job?
    • Will I betray my friends?
    • Who will ever read what I want to write?
    • Why would somebody want to waste their time with my opinions?

    And this is how you self-sabotage. This is how you have prevented yourself from the joy of experimenting and exploring the infinite meanders of creativity.

    Writing is not my job. I am not a professional writer. I am not “published”. I am not selling my writings. But if only I could make you feel the joy and the satisfaction of letting words flowing out of my fingers and getting shared, now, right here, with you. It’s the most beautiful sensation in the world.

    Do you want to create?

    Start now.


    Enjoy the story told by my friend, David Orban, about how I’ve shared my enthusiasm in starting with one of his group, Emil.

    The Context S03E25 Taking The First Step
  • Think more about your future self

    Think more about your future self

    There’s a person I want to introduce to you who is not present and cannot be. You cannot even know them, even if I wanted to bring them to you. There’s an unbridgeable gap between them and us, and it’s not space. It’s time.

    The past is gone, and if you don’t keep traces of it, it might disappear. The present is the only time we can reasonably conceive. It’s now. It’s me and you reading these words, precisely at this moment. This is now.

    But what about the future? The future does not exist. If it’s very close to us, it’s fast to become the present, and then it flies away towards the past. If it is farther away in time, it becomes an unknowable land in an unknown territory, immersed in the foggy skies of uncertainty. What you are doing in the present is to be there. You are preparing today for your journey towards the future.

    How will it be your future?

    How will the world be?

    And you, what about you?

    How will your future self be?

    Oracles and crystal balls are to be found in books, not in this world, so you cannot have any certainty about your future self. But, here’s the thing, if you focus on that aethereal persona, philosophy and psychology say that you have a higher chance to connect with them.

    Thinking about you but in the future facilitates a better connection with yourself. Something similar to relating to another physical person.

    • Will you save today for your pension if you try to imagine yourself at 90?
    • Will you smoke today, knowing what happens to your body when you maltreat it?
    • Will you invest more in authentic, long-term relationships today if you can picture yourself alone in 30 years?

    That’s the power of thinking to your future self. You’re extending your life to another dimension. You have the chance not to predict but to influence your future positively. You can become a more conscious person, more open to thinking about your present behaviors’ future consequences.

    Writing to your future self is a beautiful way to have a dialogue spanning time and space dimensions. You can time travel and send your current thoughts to the future. And when you reach that place, you will have the unique pleasure of talking to your past self in a weird and illuminating conversation.

    You are a living being constrained by, at least, four dimensions: the ones of time and space. Use tangible artifacts to travel not only through space but also through time by sending messages back and forth to your past, present, and future self.

    Start today if you’ve never done it.

    Start to care more about yourself by loving your future self. Your current choices are determining who you will be in the future. You can change your future by acting today. Rather than focusing on an abstract person in an intangible setting, think about you, but in the future. Think about your future self.

  • Pleased to meet you

    Pleased to meet you

    What I like to give you is a new person to talk to.

    Wouldn’t it be fantastic to have somebody listening to you when you have something to say?

    What about somebody who could remember the things you’ve said, the dreams you’ve captured, the happy events you lived?

    You could be in company with somebody you think you know very well. Nonetheless, you’ve never known them profoundly. Somebody who could follow your thoughts. Even when they’re dispersed, fragmented, and also disconnected. Talking to this intimate friend, you can reconnect pieces, recognize patterns, generate new ideas.

    Let me introduce the most important person to you.

    You.

    When you write down your thoughts daily and connect your ideas into more elaborate concepts, you are addressing your thinking efforts to the outside world. When you care deeply about yourself in the present, and you make an effort to think about your future self, you materialize a presence. It has always been there, your entire life, but most of the time, it has been latent. When you write to your future self, you make this presence coming alive.

    It’s you.

    Transcribe your thoughts. Care deeply about what you feel and ask yourself why you feel it. Review your written notes, your diaries, your logs. Find connections and learn better about the most important person you have.

    You.

    Grow to learn yourself by doing practical and explorative work. Listen to yourself as you would do with the person you love the most. When you feel less alone with yourself, you will be ready to be less alone with others.

    Who am I talking about?

    You

     I am talking about you.

    Say my name.
    Say my name.
  • Brain Trust Pioneers. The Report.

    Brain Trust Pioneers. The Report.

    A Brain Trust is a facilitated workshop in which the participants share, in a one hour-turn, their challenges, and the others are giving structured feedback. The presented challenge can be about anything. In our case, it was a professional challenge. Everything started from the Knowledge Entrepreneurs community founded by Achim Rothe, who organized more than 10 Online Salons. Many people aggregated and talked about how to be involved in knowledge Entrepreneurship.

    A knowledge entrepreneur is a person who gains an income by sharing his expertise. All participants were coming from that background. There were similar traits and similar aspirations.

    In a total time of about 9 hours, we had six different sessions. Each of us presented their challenge and received an intense avalanche of feedback.

    The Brain Trust Session’s structure

    About 10 minutes: the presenter introduces their challenge. Spoken, no visual aids used besides few exceptions. Screen sharing helps to support your idea.

    About 10 minutes: Silent feedback, the Brain Trusters write their feedback in a shared collaborative document. (we did not repeat this step for all presenters, we went directly to the live discussion

    About 40 minutes (with the flexibility of going beyond the time limit), Live discussion. The presenter listens to each of the Brain Trusters’ feedback. Usually, a conversation starts. There is a lot of note-taking going on during this phase.

    The benefits of the Brain Trust Sessions

    I was the last one to present. Thanks to my peers’ diversity in age, cultural background, professional field, and attitude, I gathered an astounding amount of valuable feedback.

    When you are called to give suggestions and comments to a stranger’s challenge, you might find some obstacles and risks.

    We declared the rules at the beginning:

    1. Radical Candor, no authority involved.
    2. Permission to be direct

    On the one hand, this is a strategic advantage that allows the feedback givers to compress in that relatively short individual session the best of their knowledge to be put at the presenter’s service.

    On the other hand, you risk not having time to give enough human touch to your communication, and you could come out on the harsh side of the spectrum.

    I made full use of this opportunity to be direct. I compressed many crucial and foundational topics in my feedback and role-played the Contrarian, trying to provide alternate perspectives to the group.

    Both extremes have been touched due to my experimentation: not all participants accepted the radical candor comfortably, while others were enthusiastically grateful for the direct and transparent approach.

    The Challenges

    A Brain Trust is a place where you can propose a different type of challenges:

    1. You are stuck in your career.
    2. You need to make a difficult decision in life.
    3. You want to change your job role.
    4. You don’t know how to leverage your experience.
    5. You see things not working in your professional approach, and you have no clue how to improve them.
    6. You want to explore a different way of earning a living, and you need a starting point.
    7. You have a creative idea you want to transform into a business.
    8. You want to express yourself creatively or artistically, but you don’t know how to leverage that.

    None of the content of our session will become public in any way, so I am generalizing to give you a sense of what kind of challenges could be brought on the Brain Trusters’ table.

    Suffice to say, in our case, and they shared a common creative and entrepreneurial trait while coming from very diverse professional and cultural backgrounds.

    Diversity in a Brain Trust is a powerful asset as it is in Collective Intelligence. Although it might sound weird to the inexperienced, putting yourself in the middle of people diverse from your field promotes the emergence of blindspots, original points of view, and the uncovering of exciting ideas you didn’t think about.

    Opportunities for improvement

    That experience made me reflect deeply about the rules of the games and how they can lead to force, maybe too much, the capacity of those participants who are not willing or equipped to sustain an intense, heavy, compressed session of radical feedback on their ideas.

    Facilitators of Brain Trust-types of workshop need to be aware of this feature’s potential and the risks it brings to the group.

    Achim has been excellent in all aspects: calm, empathic, measured, balanced. He orchestrated our long hours together in such a light way that I felt them passing by in an eye-blink. He was able to integrate such a diverse group of people by including them in a meaningful way and carefully respecting each person’s diversity. That is an excellent example of facilitating Collective Intelligence. We need more people like Achim in the World.

    The outcomes and the implications

    Meeting bright and motivated people like those I had the honor to meet never ends in just a meeting. At the end of the workshop, I could feel the bonding and the trust created.

    Each of us collected pages and pages of ideas, notes, comments, resources, critiques, references, and whatnot.

    Each of us committed with the group to tangible goals on which we will call to be accountable.

    Achim proposed the “3; 3; 3;” activity in which each participant states their:

    • Three days goal
    • Three weeks goal
    • Three months goal

    That made our one day and a half work during our precious weekend not only a fantastic way to grow as a person and as a professional but also the beginning of a personalized project and a small, connected community.

    We will remain in touch to check on each other’s goals at the time we have planned. Spontaneous collaborations started, to get help on each project. It will allow creating even more tangible opportunities in the future.

    I subscribed to the Brain Trust with doubts and fears, and I’ve ended up getting unstack on my projects while finding a close circle of trusted people.

    The value provided by Knowledge Entrepreneur’s Brain Trust was incommensurable.

    “Nothing important, or meaningful, or beautiful, or interesting, or great ever came out of imitations. The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.”

    — Anna Quindlen
  • Knowledge Entrepreneurs: Brain Trust Day 1

    Knowledge Entrepreneurs: Brain Trust Day 1

    I am having a fantastic experience with the first edition of Knowledge Entrepreneurs Brain Trust. A group of fellow members of Ness Labs.

    Experts in diverse fields convene to provide structured feedback to each participant’s challenge in a reciprocal way.

    I will present my challenge tomorrow, but today, providing my thoughts to the first two presenters, I have learned so much already!

    I realized that when you face the challenges of other people’s lives, in their professional ambition, you look at them from your point of view and translate your context to theirs. This projection makes you focus better on hints, resources, and suggestions in a way that seems to be impossible if you had to apply them to your challenges.

    Even if the presenters’ topic does not match your directions, you put a lot of your feelings, fears, and experience into your contribution to the group.

    At the end of an intense, rich, transforming session, well organized by our facilitator Achim Rothe, I feel I have already collected valid suggestions for my challenge.

    I am thankful and excited for the more extended session planned for tomorrow.

    See you tomorrow.

    (But if I won’t see ya, I don’t wanna be ya)

  • Find and give meaning

    Find and give meaning

    I always loved technology and computers since I was a young boy, so it was natural for me to take engineering studies. It’s only after years of efforts, sacrifices, and struggles that I discovered the abstract nature of academic assignments. I’ve decided to publish my software, I’ve started a technical publishing company, and I followed my natural tendency to share my knowledge with others. It’s only after having tried ten different jobs in various business fields and cultural settings that I’ve learn a little bit more about myself.

    Nowadays, I still feel there is so much to discover about me. Journaling and writing are such indispensable tools for self-exploration, and I cannot do without them.

    I love the concept of helping others in expressing their potential. It is one of the goals I am trying to pursue. It’s good to think about being useful to others, as much as possible, in any situation, with any positive contribution.

    Experimentation to avoid making the wrong choices

    Choosing a learning path can change your life, especially when you discover you didn’t like it along the way.

    Prompt: how can you test the waters without plunging yourself deep into a life choice as the one of a study field?

    We can give meaning to others’ lives

    We are social beings, and we live thanks to the relationship we have with others. It’s innate our desire to provide a service to them and to contribute to our community.

    Prompt: how can you be the best person possible to contribute to others’ development in pursuing and expressing their potential?

    I might have some answers, but they are my answers, coming from many different experiences, trials, and errors.

    Adopting this mindset means making small steps, evaluating the land, observing, reflecting, and deciding on the next steps.

    You need to find your answers, build on top of what others have already learned, and experiment by minimizing risks and damages while maximizing the learning.